Is orgasm denial a valid dom tool. If so, why does it work?
It's my opinion, as one, that a sub is much easier to control and dominate when denied orgasms.
Let's be honest, when we climax, the letdown we experience lowers one's enthusiasm to serve, to please, to submit. We're done, we had our fun.
And it's cumming a fundamental right? Live, breathe, cum? Being denied this, allowing someone to experience an orgasm, is truly an ultimate submission.
It says "I own you. You cum at my pleasure. Not yours".