Saturday, 19 June 2010

I miss...

I miss good sex.

Getting to know someone, and they get to know you. They knows what you like, what you love, and what you don't care about.

You know how they breathe when they're about to cum, you know how they will moan when you do that twisty handjob while you blow them. They knows just where to touch you to drive you wild and what to say to make you cum.

I miss sharing my fantasies with someone. I miss feeling cum filling up my ass.

I miss not having to go out first: just a quick phone call and the best laid plans are unfolding quickly, simply.

I miss falling asleep next to a warm body, sticky from our mixed juices.

I miss waking up and slowly stroking their cock. Waking them up with a morning blowjob.

I miss taking my shower with someone.

I miss all the intimacy of sex. I really do. But I prefer being single.

Perhaps I have it all wrong and I should be the one looking for a part time boyfriend?


SP4M: said...

Can't have it all... but what your looking for is quite easy to find if you ask me. Unless your too much of a catch for someone not able not getting too much involved.

Philoslut said...

I certainly CAN have it all. I just need to be patient to get exactly what I want, and that's tricky.

Gregor said...

hmmm . . . I've been patient and it hasn't done me a hell of a lot of good. Well, maybe it has. There are a lot of mountains left to climb, but I've humped over a few peaks already in my time!

Manylle♀ said...

Miss that too! :(

Shadow said...

Kinda why I'm not much into one-nighters, can't get that feeling with someone you barely know anything about.

Even if not in a couple, having sex with the same lady (in my case) let's me learn about her, what she likes and all. Which makes for better tomorrows!

Grantastic said...

Well, as someone who does have it all (and am very lucky to do so), I can say it is certainly well worth waiting for. Just in my situation it came at a time when I wasn't looking for a relationship, but I was honest with my girlfriend about wanted to be open. (Committed emotionally and intimately to my partner, but both of us could enjoy casual sex with others as a couple, and solo as long as we had the other's permission.) That way we have the security of a relationship and even better sexual experiences.

My recommendation is if you don't want to be monogamous (but love intimacy), then even trying out a short term polyamory relationship might be an option until you come across someone who's right for you.

So sayeth the not-so-philosphical (but semi-ethical) slut! :0

Philoslut said...

Thanks for sharing. You're obviously new to my blog as I did used to have a polyamorous relationship in the past. :)

Grantastic said...

Yep, I'm the equivalent of a blog virgin here. :) Poly's not for me since I can't share intimacy, even though I've been with poly couples before (and glad it works for them!)

Jean-Olivier Gagnon said...

I sincerely didn't expect that from your blog but this post touched me. I've been divorced for a little while and although I do not miss the person that is my ex-wife, I miss the intimacy but especially the complicity we had. The little touches like the breathing and the shower. Thank you for sharing. I feel the exact same way.