I've always ended up having a crush on my teachers or bosses.
I'm very dominant in my day to day life, but in bed, I tend to be considerably submissive. So naturally, I transpose the autority these persons have over me in the bedroom.
That could explain the long and detailled dream I had about my previous boss and him having his way with me in the office, before the day started.
Dominating someone isn't always about violence: often a simple deep eyecontact can do the trick.
I love when I'm being used and the guy is holding up my gaze in an assertive expression that could be translated as "I own you".