I was trying to explain to my friend that men are arroused visually first. Again, the looks argument.
Most of my readers think they are clever when they find my MSN address and they ask me for a picture. Or two. Men are visually stimulated: they like to see, they like to watch.
With a blog devious of pictures, they have to imagine me, put images in their head of the words on the screen.
Women need a whole different kind of stimulation. Visual can get things started, but touch and smell are much more important. The brain is the biggest sex organ: in both genders.
We tend to smile, sometimes point and laugh, when guys have a picture of their cocks in their online dating profile (even if the website is intended for finding sex partners). Because that is seriously the less arrousing thing you can show, like a telemarketing cold call, to a woman.
And I won't even mention the headless abs shot in the bathroom mirror: this is just sad, really.